Hello Lovers , I have being asked this question times without number.
And days back someone asked again and that gave me a great idea.
Thank you for asking, lovely .
Before I dive into the signs of true love, let me ask you this question “what is love, even true love?”
What Is True Love?
I have searched and I’ve not seen a better and more true definition of what the term, “true love” really mean.
Except for that of the Bible. So I’ll be telling you the same thing, because it is not only the truth, it is also self-explanatory.
True love suffers long and it’s kind, true love does not envy, true love does not parade itself, it is not puffed up.
Real love does not behave rudely, it does not seek its own, it is not provoked, it thinks no evil, it does not rejoice in iniquity, all resources in the truth.
Love bears all things, it believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
True Love Never fails.
(1 Cor 13:4-8.)
Read and digest every word, because it’s all you need to know. And I’m aware you may not be a person of faith but just read again, every word, do you understand it?
Have I said anything to upset you? I hope not .
True love is simply true love. No addition or subtraction.
However, there are certain physical signs you can see in your partner to know if he or she truly love you.
WARNING: If You Haven’t Seen Any Or All The Signs, No Pressure. Give Love Sometime. If It Doesn’t Show Then, Maybe Your Partner Doesn’t Really Love You.
Also, don’t be mistaken, if you see the sun’s coming from another person and not the person you are presently with the name means only one thing. And that is he or she loves you and me really admire you dearly.
Indirectly Show You How He Feels About You.
Sometimes love can be shy, and just want to steal glances of your face every now and then, make a contact with you and smile just the warm your heart a little.
Those kind of smiles that could melt your heart and make you smile as well .
Truelove could also send you long text messages in the morning and night and wouldn’t mind if you didn’t reply or rather send something short (like, k or Yh.) Love endures whatsoever.
You Always Want To Talk And Be Around Him.
Talking comes easy with your special person. You don’t care how you look or how you are dressed, you always want to be around him or her.
Because you enjoy their company.
You want to take long, slow walks, holding hands and talking about anything and everything.
Even though they may be distance between you two, you still find other ways to fill up the void and feel close again.
You Smile For No Reason.
Yes, you may have just smiled again, right now, realising it’s true.
You might just be busy with the day’s work or activity and will remember something he said and then you will smile, head-over-heels blushing for that special someone.
Sometimes your heart begins to race when he’s near too.
You Do The Weirdest Things.
As if the previous bullet point wasn’t crazy enough… Sometimes you may also take out his picture, zoom in on it (if digital), kiss it or start talking to it like, ” hey babe, I miss you so much.”
Lolzzz , crazy!
Also you could just stay and start scrolling up, to the first text message you received from him and start rereading it till the end, again. Smiles (mostly girls do it, I guess.) And don’t get me started on the part where you fart freely in his/her presence and suddenly it becomes a competition.
There Happiness Is Your One Priority.
Indeed, even if it doesn’t involve you in the picture, you always want to see them happy and joyful.
Just a frown on his face or even a change in the tone of his voice could get you sad and worried.
You Can’t Stay Angry At Him For Long.
Staying angry at him for long is like… Impossible! Yes, you know what’s weird sometimes, in fact, most times but you just don’t want to have him stay away from you or feel sad, or annoyingly keep on begging you…
Yeah, I know right, even in anger there is still a little part of love deep down inside!
You are human. Seeing him talk to other girls or give someone else more attention than you, you may start questioning his love for you. Because you want to be the number one woman or at least the second woman close to his heart (his mum being the first.)
If you see this sign, jealousy not envy (please those are two different things entirely) then, you know you really love him. And that’s why you don’t want to share him with anyone else .
Promises not kept will not only hurt your partner but might just break him or her.
You tend to always keep your other end of promise no matter what. And sometimes, unfortunately, he might not always the same but whenever you both do, it builds trust and also deepen your love for each other.
You Want To Say Every Single Thing.
Talking as I said becomes easy and comfortable and no matter how weird it may sound, you just want to say it.
Want to say everything about how your day went, what happened at work, the pain you feel and so on. And then laughing it all off gives you the relieve.
You Never Want To Hurt Them.
Though they may be rainy days and sad days, I mean they are inevitable but you always want to see them happy, smiling and laughing not sad, and feeling gloomy or hurt.
You Put Effort Into The Relationship.
Putting effort into the relationship, doing things you’ve never done before just to keep him close or see him happy is a great sign.
However, sometimes, some lose themselves in the process. By trying too much, it in so much effort and yet nothing to show for it.
Please, put effort in a love you know is willing to do the same for you in return.
There’s no point of anything if you lose yourself in the process.
And last but not the least,
You Take Action To Prove Your Love.
When you truly love someone, you sacrificed everything to prove or show them how much you mean it and how much you care.
You surprise them, take them out even though you may not have much, you do anything, just anything. You can also write love letters pouring out your heart into it or cook their favourite meals just to see them smile and satisfied.
Here, is all this and so much more just to show you true love’s signs.
With that special one beside you everything seems to be perfect in every way.
If you have seen this signs, “Don’t be afraid to let your guards down. Give true love a chance, you don’t know if you might just be lucky to find that “true love” is the one best for you.”
And if you’ve not, “then, be patient. True love is Patient. It endures even the test of time.”
Have a wonderful week lovely .
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p.s. If you have any true love signs of your own, please drop in the comments section below, thank you.