Hey lovely, how have you been? A new week already… HAPPY NEW WEEK lovely ❤.

Being a while I wrote to you like this, without worrying about whether my content is Search Engine Optimized (SEO) or not.

Aww, surely it feels really nice to break the rules sometimes ?.

Today, I have just a few things I’d like to share with you. It’s rather personal but I hope you find this helpful as i was pretty much out of ideas on what to write about (I apologize, sometimes writer’s got block too?‍♂️?. )

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Many ladies and perhaps gentlemen hide every day; not speaking up or revealing to anyone about nothing when they suffer from violence, or violence from their partners.

Indeed, love is sweet and rosy but not every time and sometimes you just need to know when to step back a little.

What do I mean?

No one (not even you) would like to be beaten or violated whether through words or blows/punches.

Women have died, faced violence, many are still suffering, and sometimes for them, it’s just hard to speak out. They fear so much for the unknown.

But, oftentimes it’s not their fault.

Think about this lovely, you going through a similar issue; a person you truly loved (LOML) starts from;

• Yelling/shouting
• To slap you and claim it’s just a joke
• And then to actually punch you and deprive you of the happiness you deserve.

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What would you do? (Please let me know your answer(s) down in the comment section, thanks.)

There are tons of answers to this question but for what it’s worth, here are a few steps you could take.

N: B I am not an expert (yet) and these are just friendly suggestions.

1. PRAY:

Firstly, I understand you may think prayers do not matter at this point or moment… but you MUST remember that there’s nothing God can’t do, no matter the situation.

2. TALK TO A FRIEND YOU TRUST:

it might be hard to believe but a trusted, loyal friend is far better than a thousand unloyal friends.

You can meet a friend, best friend, spiritual leader, or/and mentor. Talking and pouring out all your heart matters, can really help feel a little better than staying in silence (almost running crazy.) It takes work but I’m here for you ?.

3. VISIT A PROFESSIONAL:

You must know, lovely, I love you and really care about you including your mental health and I believe talking to the right person can help you out.

If it seriously may seem too tough or you are finding it hard to escape from your lover’s captivity, you can talk to me instead and I will in turn contact the highest counselor and social worker that can help you out.

Please, don’t take this lightly, I am reaching out to you because I can and if you do in turn see someone who needs help with things like this please reach out, give an ear to them (listen), and speak in the way you can to help them, pray and just try please ??.

And that would be all for now, don’t forget to be happy, smile ?. Feel free to talk to me whenever you need to. I’m here just for you (literally.)