Hey lovely! Whether you’re just starting or you’ve been navigating the dating scene for a while, one thing is for sure: setting boundaries is crucial. But when it comes to honouring God in dating, the stakes are even higher. So, let’s dive into some tips on how to set dating boundaries that not only respect each other but also honour our faith journey.

1. Our Boundaries Are Sacred 🔥

First and foremost, let’s understand that our boundaries are not just rules to follow but expressions of our commitment to honour God in our relationship. They’re like guardrails on the road, guiding us toward a healthy and fulfilling connection while safeguarding our spiritual integrity.

2. No Sleepovers: Keeping the Space Sacred

One way to set boundaries in your relationship that aligns with honouring God is by saying no to sleepovers. While spending time together is wonderful, maintaining physical distance overnight helps uphold the sanctity of our bodies and our commitment to purity.

3. Say No to X-Rated or Overly Romantic Movies

Movies have a powerful influence on our minds and hearts. Opting out of watching explicit or overly romantic films helps us guard our thoughts, emotions and hearts, keeping them focused on what is pure and pleasing to God.

4. Communicate, Communicate, Communicate

Effective communication is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship, especially when it comes to setting and respecting boundaries. Let’s commit to open, honest conversations about our needs, desires, and limitations.

Don’t forget communication is very important here as not everyone may want the same things in life but you must also know your priority and know that the right partner would be one to build you up, help you stay faithful to your values and promises rather than force you or gaslight you into thinking otherwise.

5. Embrace Outdoor Events and Dates

Who says dates have to be confined to indoor spaces? Embracing outdoor activities not only adds variety and excitement to our relationship but also provides opportunities for connection without the pressure of physical intimacy.

6. Keep Cuddles and Smooches in Check

While affection is important, let’s strive to keep it balanced and respectful. Being overly cuddly and smoochy can blur boundaries and lead to temptation. Let’s save the fireworks for the right moments.

7. Hands Off Below the Belt

Physical boundaries are crucial in honouring God with our bodies. Committing to refrain from touching or fondling private areas respects the sacredness of our bodies and our commitment to purity.

8. Prioritize Emotional and Spiritual Connection

In addition to physical boundaries, let’s prioritize building emotional and spiritual intimacy. Investing in deep conversations, shared experiences, and spiritual growth strengthens our bond and honours God in our relationship.

9. Be Accountable

A bonus tip to setting boundaries in today’s dating advice is to not neglect being accountable to each other, your supportive friends, families, and maybe even a mutual mentor or spiritual leader. This would help keep you both in check.

Knowing that you and your partner are waiting till marriage before being s3xual with each other is a great decision to make and sometimes though the flesh may be willing, it can also be very weak. So, pray the LORD leads you both, helps you to resist temptations and helps you both to honour HIM first that HE alone may be pleased and glorified.

In conclusion, setting boundaries in our dating relationship isn’t about restriction; it’s about liberation. It’s about honouring ourselves, each other, and our faith journey as we pursue a relationship that reflects God’s love and grace. So let’s embrace these boundaries with joy and confidence, knowing that they lead us closer to the abundant life God desires for us. Happy dating, and may God bless your journey fruitfully!

P.S. Kindly engage: comment below your tips to set boundaries in a relationship and don’t forget to share this blog post with your loved ones, friends and families too 🙂